Frederic M. Decker

Do not worry if you have a hard time to describe what really bothers you. You will find out soon enough, when we talk about it. I get approached with very different situations and each situation requires a different approach. There are some things that are difficult to overcome without somebody there to listen and help identify and overcome the causes: confused life purposes, overwhelming fears, crises in the job, heaviness of spirit, hurting separations, lack of vitality and power. There are others where you may need an extra push (whether inner or outer) such as taking decisions, such as formulating and focusing in on goals or taking responsibility. There are others where a devil's advocate is in need to identify your defenses, to develop effective strategies for your goals, to lay out your thinking patterns or beliefs for you to see what you tell yourself. And others where the right mindset is needed, such as activating your resources, forgiving yourself and others, letting go through tranquility and feeling gratitude or peace of mind or real power. Everybody is at a different spot in their life, and most people may need all of these and others only effective strategies and tools to be more effective and achieve even more growth and success!

Yes, I won't lie to you. Growth and change can be painful. But what is more painful in the end: self-mastery or being stuck? 

At the same time, you will be surprised how effortlessly you will shrug off some of the problems that have been accompanying yourself for such a long time that you may now think are part of you and how refreshed and liberated you will feel after five days. Yes, you will even catch yourself laughing while looking back to baggage left behind and obstacles overcome- still in disbelief and with a broad smile for yourself :) 

How do you feel about your life? What is it you want to work at? What is it you want to deal with? What do you want to achieve? Why do you think it is not working?

Do you feel anxious, guilty, shameful, insecure or depressed? Would you like to Escape the Downward Spiral or Regain Control? Or do you want to catalyze yourself for the next challenge and you need some more energy and decision-making in your life by Freeing Your Personal Power? Or both? Or do you have a specific fear that does not let you function the way you would like to and you would like to Replace It? Or do you just need somebody to listen, to support and motivate you?

There are times when our personal efforts are not enough to make us change and start believing again. Sometimes we need professional help, guidance and someone to listen to us- free from judgment.

These are offered at the same time only in situ. 

Frederic has studied the intricacies of the human brain for over 18 years. He has read and watched thousands of books, videos and studies from psychology, anthropology, religion and philosophy in his search for a greater understanding of the human mind and applies this knowledge as well as his own self-discovery and transformation by helping others. By cherrypicking the most effective methods, he has developed his own fast model of transformation for others. During his life, Frederic has helped hundreds of individuals to a deeper meaning of purpose, more awareness, a greater self-confidence, deep-rooted feelings of trust and security, a healthier lifestyle, better relationships, more success in their career and finances and a greater zest for life! 

Starting with basics such as Freud and Jung, dream analysis and developmental psychology, he soon wrote papers about different psychological concepts including bipolar disorder and altruism. During his studies, several people approached him for psychological help and that is when he first applied what he learned and where he developed his passion to understand the human brain, thought and behavior. While helping several people during his studies, he felt he was getting too emotionally involved with the problems of his clients and decided, influenced by the pressure from his family to start a "traditional" career. He was especially interested in finance, a system similar in its complexity to the human brain. During his years in finance, he frequently traveled the world, to study religions and philosophy, with a focus on Buddhism and Taoism, where he for example took classes with the Dalai Lama. Through these experiences, he learned through compassion to listen with his mind and soul. Furthermore, he soon learned to deal with his own helplessness employing effective techniques to overcome emotional blockages. 

As a management and strategy consultant, he needed to manage the expectations of high-caliber clients and, therefore, he is well aware of the demanding and often intruding effect of pressure and stress in the mind of a person. While giving strategic advice and building decision models for global companies and executives, and applying his large analytical capacities, he has proven himself in finance, private equity, the stock market and consulting moving up to manage teams in two of the most competitive working environments. He has lived in different countries (Spain, Honduras, USA, Germany, England) and has traveled to more than sixty countries where he has gotten to know different cultures all around the world with varying belief systems and norms, while discovering the commonalities of the human mind in all its beautiful and temporarily ugly variations.  He has also worked in the entrepreneurial sector of Berlin, while building his own business. Doing what he preaches, he has completely transformed his life by becoming and excelling as an emotional and performance coach. He believes in a global approach to a person and strategies and methods that work and are effective! He is now especially interested in the relationship between emotions and physical health and has witnessed very powerful physical side effects in his clients almost immediately after the emotional transformations.

I charge only EUR 3,000 for one of my programs including ten hours for a complete transformation to get you where you want to be!

I can do shorter sessions if there is something specific (such as a specific fear, or problem) you want to deal with, the cost will be higher per hour.