Thinking of Divorce? Don't Let Fear Make your Choices For You!

Divorce and breakups are some of the most stressful life events anyone can experience.  

As a divorce coach, I know that it doesn't matter whether you are a man or a woman, what age you are, if you're in a long-term marriage or a common law relationship. Divorce is painful, gut wrenching, confusing and definitely not a straight path.

It's normal to wonder if you're doing the right thing,  and to second guess yourself, your decisions and your motivation all the time. And, it the entire process is on fast-forward- you have to make huge decisions about YOUR life on someone else's (the courts) timeline.  Incredibly stressful.

The biggest mistake in divorce

The biggest mistake that people make when divorcing is not engaging a professional to help them with the emotional, financial and legal aspects of divorce- the real issue around divorce is making sure you have all of the resources, information and support to make the best decisions that will affect your (and your family's) life forever. 

For some people, that means the very complicated issue of kids and taking the "right" steps so your kids are not further hurt by the ending of your marriage.

For others, it means the complex issues of splitting finances at a stage of life where you should be kicking back and relaxing, not in fear about your future. 

And still for others, divorce isn't what they want- for some of my clients, the work we do is to get their marriage back together.

You are not alone

But whatever your situation, I want you to know that you're not alone. As a survivor of divorce myself, I have experienced much of what you're going through.

My one goal in our relationship is to help you make this crucial step in your life without fear, guilt or anger.  As your divorce coach,  we will collaboratively work on dealing with the uncertainties, stresses and fears about the next phase of your life. Contact me now to find out how!