Anaya Behan

At Pretty in Kink Sex, Kink, and relationship Coaching, we believe that everyone should be able to freely live their lives expressing their sexual interests or kinks with self-confidence and without fear or shame. Whether you are here to re-spark the flame in a current relationship, or to focus on yourself, working with a certified Sex and Kink Coach and Educator like me can help you not only accept yourself and your own desires, but also help you share your needs and wants with your partner or partners in order to have the fulfilling life you’ve always dreamed of.

You are one of a kind, and I treat you that way. In sessions with me, I will address you and your situation without using cookie cutter philosophies or dogmas that could stifle your progress. I will take the time to get to know you and explore your unique needs while patiently and thoroughly answering all your questions and providing you with the necessary tools and information that will facilitate your growth, and gently guide you towards living a more authentic life.

I have experience working with people from all walks of life. I coach individuals as well as couples with all different relationship styles including monogamous, polyamorous, consensual non-monogamous, swing, kink, and other non-traditional relationships. I’m also professionally trained to work with individuals and couples of all sexualities, gender identities, races, nationalities, and ages. I strongly believe that everyone should have the chance to express themselves and their sexuality in safe and consensual ways, and it is my passion to work with my clients to help them achieve this goal.

I will facilitate sessions in order to help you get to know yourself better, and accept yourself in ways that you may never have thought possible. I can also work with you and your partner(s) to help you understand each other better through effective communication and by learning how to express your needs and preferences in a safe and healthy way. You will learn the art of negotiation, and how to communicate in direct, yet non-judgemental ways that allow you to express your needs, desires, and boundaries so you can get to the fun part -- the authentic and beautiful expression of sexuality and/or kinks.

I am certified through the Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) and am currently working toward my certification with the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). I have a BA in Psychology with a minor in Sociology, and am constantly striving to develop my abilities to help others through trainings, workshops, and classes in order to enhance my coaching.

As a Sex and Kink Coach and Educator, I enjoy learning how best to understand my clients so I can reach my goal of helping each and every one of them live their most authentic and fulfilled lives, in and out of the bedroom.