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Paul Paiva

M.Div., M.A., lic Erotic Blueprints 
Boulder, Colorado, United States
Christian Intimacy Coach, Paul Paiva
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FEES from $75 USD to $200 USD for coaching packages. more...

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About me

Paul Paiva, M.Div., M.A., does pre-marital prep for engaged couples, and is a certified and licensed intimacy and sexuality coach who teaches the Erotic Blueprints™ to couples who want to ignite their passion, including those affected by religion-induced shame, and to singles who want to prepare for their next partner.

He teaches the Enneagram as a tool for personal growth to couples, individuals, and groups.

Paul actively blogs, writes, and speaks on Post-Denominational Sex-Positive Christianity, women's reproductive and sexual autonomy, celibacy, sexuality, the Catholic Church, and his views that Jesus embraces all and accepts all enthusiastically consensual sexual activities.  He is also a former Roman Catholic priest who is sex-positive, LGBTQIA-embracing, poly-friendly, and kink-friendly.





Intimacy Coaching

Has this ever happened to you?

  • In your long-term relationship, you had good/excellent sexual chemistry at the beginning, but after 5, 10, 20+ years the chemistry has waned.

  • You have felt misunderstood by a partner who has (hurtfully) labeled you uninterested or low libido?

  • Your efforts to communicate to your partner what pleases you have been unsuccessful.

  • You are best friends, but have little or no sex. You are in love and committed but unsure of the future.

  • After you married, exploring intimacy was enjoyable, but without much sexual satisfaction.

I am an Egalitarian (progressive) Christian who is sex-positive LGBT-embracing, poly-friendly, and kink-friendly, and a former pastor.  

I can help you navigate your sexual issues and respect your faith.


Difficult Divorce - Child Custody

This is a challenging time for you.  I have experience with challenging divorces involving child custody.  Sometimes a party may make phone calls to the police, restraining orders, alignment/bias of a teacher or therapist.

I am able to listen to your unique situation and help you to sort things out, and develop a strategy for moving forward.

Short courses or group coaching

Spiritual Coaching or Spiritual Direction

I can co-discern with you on your faith journey.  I have a M.Div. with emphasis in pastoral counseling, and M.A. in theology, and trained in spiritual direction.


Fee description

Fees: from $75 USD to $200 USD

$90/hour-long session, sliding scale available, just let me know.

Packages available.

Ask about the comprehensive 8 module Erotic Blueprint Course which is a comprehensive "makeover" designed to get to the root of your intimacy issues and take you to having the best intimacy you've ever had.



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