In any situation where two people meet and bond in the context of a relationship, conflict is inevitable due to differences in values. Having said that, there could be a possibility of agreeing to disagree in order to start over again on a clean slate. Nonetheless, it all depends on how much the two people involved are prepared to make an effort to get back from where they left off or whether they want to engage in a more amicable and civil manner to pave the way forward or even make a complete closure. Either way, it’s not a matter of pride or ego. Those two factors must be eliminated in the first instance. We all want to love and be loved by those we choose to be in a relationship with. To that end, it’s well worth our efforts to fight for our love and happiness. We deserve to be happy. Where children are involved, this matter must be treated with the utmost sensitivity because they are our responsibility and we owe them a great measure of stability.
Now, getting back to the most important aspect of distinguishing a temporary from a permanent breakup, In the aftermath of a separation, individuals must take time to reflect on what went wrong and if they could have done something for a better outcome or if they can still try to rectify whatever it was that led to the disagreement. Maybe it’s something that they can approach in a different way; compromise, agree to disagree, or it just wasn’t possible to resolve without the other person meeting them halfway? Did they do whatever they did because of what other people might think, or did they just want to make up to save face? Be true to yourself. After all, it’s only two people within a relationship, and that's what really matters.
Some people may even be reduced to a sense of helplessness as they wait for a phone call that may never come.
Having said all this, there is hope, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with being the bigger person by picking up that phone and taking action to make things work out. A problem discussed is a problem half solved. Remember, picking up from where you left off is a gradual process.
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