Find a Divorce coach

A divorce coach helps you avoid costly mistakes. Decisions made in flashes of anger are easy to regret. When you have a divorce coach you have someone to take a second look at what you're doing. A coach gives you a non-judgmental person who can help you make the best decisions.

You'll also get strategies for halting your anger or coping with stress. Your coach will teach you to stop a negative thought and replace it with a positive message. As you do this more often, you'll experience a sense of freedom and empowerment. When you have to deal with your ex-spouse, these new skills will reduce tension.

A divorce coach helps you:

• Avoid angry confrontations
• Handle custody decisions
• Choose settlement options
• Sort through paperwork
• Speak productively with your ex-spouse
• Manage financial pressures
• Strengthen your new sense of self

A divorce coach will be a great listener. But after you've vented, your coach will teach you how to get past harsh feelings. Your anger, rejection and disappointment are all valid emotions. Your coach teaches you to accept them but not linger on them.

Prevent a difficult process from becoming a horrible one. A divorce coach helps you manage stress and anger.

Divorce often has large financial consequences. Working with a coach will keep you from making rash decisions.

Achieve the best outcome that is possible. Even though it's a divorce, the results don't have to be devastating. A coach helps you advocate for yourself.

As you go through this huge transition, a divorce coach gives you the tools to imagine your new future.

A divorce coach helps you communicate effectively. You can sort out your jumble of emotions and say what you really need after working with a coach.